Before there’s a we, there’s a me (part 2)
Lilian Gutierrez
(Audio: English, Spanish) ->Alternate
SUMMARY: The speaker talks about the worship song they sang, which talks about waiting on the Lord and being renewed, like an eagle soaring above its problems. They emphasize the importance of building up oneself before becoming a part of a couple or family. The speaker then quotes from 1 Corinthians, discussing the different categories of single people, including those who have never been married, those who have cohabitated, those who are divorced or separated, and widows/widowers. The speaker notes that each group may come with its own set of issues and insecurities.
The process of becoming a couple or a "we" is not easy and involves many factors to consider. One important aspect is the category of singles in the church, such as widows or widowers, and their past relationships. Another crucial factor is the presence of children, which can create dynamics and challenges in a blended family. It is important to be aware of biblical criteria when choosing a mate, such as being equally yoked and doing one's homework about their background. Love is not just a feeling, but a patient, kind, and enduring commitment. Communication is also essential in developing a deeper relationship, and involves sharing who you truly are with caution and progressiveness.
The speaker discusses the importance of love, communication, and trust in relationships, especially for Christian women seeking a partner. She advises taking time to develop these qualities progressively and cautiously, observing a potential partner's reliability, integrity, decision-making ability, and confidentiality. She suggests proceeding through stages of friendship, group dating, courtship, and engagement. She emphasizes the importance of avoiding sexual activity and proceeding with caution, as well as the importance of seeking satisfaction in Jesus Christ rather than in a partner. The speaker also notes the potential harm to children in cases of divorce.
This passage discusses the Feast of Tabernacle and how Jesus offered living water to all who were thirsty. It emphasizes that even if you never become a "we" (married), you are a complete and dignified "me" in Christ. The passage encourages readers to soar like the eagle through hard times and to remember that there is nothing impossible for God. It ends with a call to lift up the wings of the eagle and fly to your destination as a complete woman in Christ.
The process of becoming a couple or a "we" is not easy and involves many factors to consider. One important aspect is the category of singles in the church, such as widows or widowers, and their past relationships. Another crucial factor is the presence of children, which can create dynamics and challenges in a blended family. It is important to be aware of biblical criteria when choosing a mate, such as being equally yoked and doing one's homework about their background. Love is not just a feeling, but a patient, kind, and enduring commitment. Communication is also essential in developing a deeper relationship, and involves sharing who you truly are with caution and progressiveness.
The speaker discusses the importance of love, communication, and trust in relationships, especially for Christian women seeking a partner. She advises taking time to develop these qualities progressively and cautiously, observing a potential partner's reliability, integrity, decision-making ability, and confidentiality. She suggests proceeding through stages of friendship, group dating, courtship, and engagement. She emphasizes the importance of avoiding sexual activity and proceeding with caution, as well as the importance of seeking satisfaction in Jesus Christ rather than in a partner. The speaker also notes the potential harm to children in cases of divorce.
This passage discusses the Feast of Tabernacle and how Jesus offered living water to all who were thirsty. It emphasizes that even if you never become a "we" (married), you are a complete and dignified "me" in Christ. The passage encourages readers to soar like the eagle through hard times and to remember that there is nothing impossible for God. It ends with a call to lift up the wings of the eagle and fly to your destination as a complete woman in Christ.
The worship song that we were singing is one of the words that the Lord is always giving me, no matter where I go or what I’m doing, the Lord is always speaking that same word to my life: “They that wait upon the Lord shall be renewed, they shall mount up with the wings of an eagle, they shall run and not grow weary, they shall walk and not faint,” and as we’re waiting on becoming a we, as we’re building up the me, we’re waiting on the Lord, and he will give us new strength.
You know, the eagle is such a beautiful creature, and has attributes that no other creature has. If you look at the wings of an eagle and has such potential, once the eagle opens its wings and it starts to soar, it keeps going till it reaches its destination. And that’s what the Lord tells his people: “Them that wait on me will be able to lift up their wings, they’re going to soar and they are not going to stop till they make it to their destination.”
You know, the eagle is such a beautiful creature, and has attributes that no other creature has. If you look at the wings of an eagle and has such potential, once the eagle opens its wings and it starts to soar, it keeps going till it reaches its destination. And that’s what the Lord tells his people: “Them that wait on me will be able to lift up their wings, they’re going to soar and they are not going to stop till they make it to their destination.”
